In this blog, I want to talk about how unhealthy patterns affect each other. It is a continuation of last week.
Last week I talked about repeating the pattern of getting oneself into debt and how that can play into the victim-predator-rescuer triangle. That also plays into a poverty mindset.
But how does this play into personality communication or conflict resolution?
When we do not know our personality needs and how to effectively communicate them we can easily fall prey to unhealthy patterns. We then are not able to learn the skills to be skillful with others in handling conflict. That sounds like a mouth full of jargon, doesn’t it?
As myself and my co-collaborator have been on this journey we have realized is we will make a lot of mistakes and miss things. We will grow and learn about ourselves and others. We will learn what we need and oftentimes what others need, even if they don’t know how to express it or don’t know themselves.
We have even learned that our model uses other models to help us figure things out in expressing this.
So what does all this mean?
Well, that is for next week’s blog story to explain it all.